Services: Individual/Couples/Family Counselling
Expertise: Working with people experiencing emotional overwhelm - focused on romantic relationships, rebuilding healthy self-esteem and harmonious family dynamics.
Certified Relationship and Attachment Trauma
Certified Menopause Specialist
As a child, Bev lived in an unstable, unpredictable and chaotic household. This led her to absorb unhealthy relationship ideas based on what she was witnessing: learning that relationships were supposed to be unbalanced, uncertain and unsafe. If you have an insecure attachment style, you probably relate to her experience, and navigating relationships can be particularly difficult for you.
Prior to founding Securely Loved, Bev was an Executive Leader, University Lecturer and published author, having obtained her Masters' Degree in 2006. She has devoted her entire career (25+ years) to working with adults in the realm of personal growth and professional development.
Bev has been welcomed onto shows covering relationships, parenting, sex & intimacy, midlife, and personal growth. Here's some of what hosts had to say after recording with her.
Bev Mitelman recently appeared on the Father Talks podcast, and the conversation was nothing short of exceptional. Bev is a true wealth of knowledge, and even more importantly, she is incredibly generous in the way she shares it. Every question was met with insight, clarity, and real-world understanding. The dialogue flowed effortlessly, and it quickly became clear that one hour simply wasn't enough.
Bev was a guest on my podcast and she brought a wealth of knowledge to our conversation centered around attachment styles. Bev definitely knows her stuff! Her enthusiasm and passion for healing attachments and helping us find and cultivate secure, healthy love radiates. Highly recommend!
Bev was such a dynamic guest to have on the podcast. She brought clarity and depth to the conversation while keeping it engaging and approachable. Her passion and knowledge shine through in a way that makes complex ideas easy to connect with, leaving listeners with valuable insights they can carry forward.
Bev is one of the most talented guests I have met on my show. She is very knowledgeable, and I loved having her as part of my show! I anticipate having her on multiple times since the discussion on attachment styles can be insightful and beneficial to listeners. We have so much to uncover.
Bev brought clarity, warmth, and real-time insight to our conversation on attachment styles. Her ability to explain deep emotional patterns while holding space with compassion made this episode one of the most impactful yet. A grounded and powerful guest — highly recommend!
Bev is absolutely amazing! Extremely well spoken and able to flawlessly come back to thoughts and ideas when we took things in a new direction. The conversation we recorded with her is 100% invaluable and we cannot wait to share it with our audience.
Bev has the talent to be able to explain complicated topics and concepts in a way that I could understand! Attachment styles are just fascinating, and as a result of the conversation I'm going to learn a lot more about the topic — and I'm getting Bev back on for part II. Great guest.
Bev is an awesome guest. She is fun and has such a great knowledge base. She provides realistic examples and tips for improvement! Would host her as a guest anytime.
It was a great experience interviewing Bev. Her passion was infectious and she's very knowledgeable. I learned a lot from her.
Services: Individual Counselling
Expertise: People-pleasing, codependency, narcissistic abuse, low self-esteem & rejection sensitivity, process addictions (overeating/binge eating, overspending, love addiction), and ADHD burnout.
Jess is a Master’s level clinician who has rebuilt her life after getting sober seventeen years ago and battled through her own struggles with anxious attachment, imposter syndrome, and low self-worth.
Jess is highly motivated to help you gain the skills, tools, and an understanding of the psychology behind attachment theory to help you put an end to self-sabotaging behavior, toxic relationships, and playing small in this world.
Services: Individual Counselling
Expertise: Working primarily with men 30 - 55 years old with a focus on dating and healthy relationships, healing from heartbreak, rebuilding self-esteem and confidence, people pleasing and boundary setting, and ADHD burnout and executive functioning.
As a former Educational Leader and Director of Coaching for a Psychotherapy Clinic, Al brings more than 25 years of experience working with both adolescents and adults.
As a Certified Relationship and Attachment Theory Practitioner, Al helps clients explore core beliefs, personal needs, boundaries, and coping mechanisms to build self-awareness and recognize sabotaging patterns. His work emphasizes emotional literacy and the development of a secure attachment style.
The free Attachment Style Quiz takes five minutes and explains exactly why people do what they do in relationships. You probably already have someone in mind.
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